Solo Dates in London

Hiya!

I wanted to introduce a new series I have been planning to do now that I'm back in London, and I am excited to finally share it with everyone.

I have found that there are so many events, restaurants, bars, and places I want to try, but not always someone to join me. I don't want that to stop me from exploring my new home so I thought it would be fun going on these adventures myself and sharing my experience with all of you. So, welcome! Our first outing is Noci in Shoreditch, a pasta restaurant about a four minute walk (if that) from Old Street Station, with a good-sized menu and a cozy atmosphere. I went this past Sunday with the intention to try the bottomless pasta for £25.00 but decided not to eat with my eyes and just ordered one plate but I will definitely be back.

I will be honest, I was a bit nervous to be going out to eat all by myself. I'd never gone to a restaurant and asked for a table for one. Dinner in my family was always a big event, every night, no matter how busy we were, it was the time for us to slow down and connect. That tradition has made me appreciate how special a meal is with those you love. But as a settled into my table, I told myself that it wasn't that bad. No one cared nor pointing and shouting "look at that girl eating by herself" and I actually enjoyed it. I started off with a Peach and Elderberry Fizz, which was so refreshing —the perfect balance of earthy sweetness and the sharp bite of the prosecco. For my main, I ordered my go to: carbonara. It’s a classic I always gravitate toward, and when it’s done right, it’s perfection. Noci definitely nailed it — light but flavorful, and I made sure not to leave a single bite behind.

My goal for this occasion was not to rush out after my meal and to stay off my phone. I really wanted to make sure that I was in the moment and enjoy the food, environment, and the people around me. These days its second nature to get on my phone when I am alone or left with nothing to do. It's not that I am actually busy I just become uncomfortable with being alone so this time I chose to embrace it. I brought my book with me (review coming in November's Book of the Month) and honestly had a lovely time.

I hope that this encourages you to try something new this week and enjoy your own company. And if you are ever in the mood for great pasta and fantastic staff, I would highly recommend Noci because I sure know that I will be back!

-xx W